Today I offered N the chance to punish me as he sees fit. It’s something that I find hard to do. When a partner shits the bed and admit what they did and offer a way to accept responsibility for their actions would it be for themselves or the partner who gets satisfaction that they have been punished?
I believe that N will feel better if he does accept what I am offering. At least in my mind it makes sense.
Will you take what I have offered to you N? Only you can decide. I will wait for your answer. I expect if you accept the offer to be hurt quite a lot. Not a funishment but one like what Mistress Deb gave me for an infraction that I made.
No one is perfect, so if you do accept I will submit to your punishment gladly.