This is all at this point for me something that I discussed with a friend, a relationship in which it was a 24/7 D/s dynamic, ritual filled and consentual live with one another as life partners. There was/is a strong desire to explore this type of relationship with someone with the complete understanding who would be the head of the relationship.
When I mentioned this it is almost immediately agreed that the reasoning is sound to explore something that resembles this. The question remains who would be the partners in the relationship and what would this mean.
For as long as I have been involved in BDSM I have been interested in finding the right partner to be the other part with me on my journey. I am no longer placing adds looking, I know that if someone is going to be my partner they will approach me and let me know. I know that a person who wants what I want will let me know when the time is right.
I may have someone in mind but they are a friend first and only they can choose or not to be with me on the journey, and I don’t care if it’s multiple partners or a single person. The trouble with discussion is you can discuss something and then there are choices to be made. They aren’t mine to make, I’ve already accepted the chaotic nature of the world and options.